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"GOD has not called me to be successful. He called me to be Faithful… Never forget or neglect anyone because nobody knows what's coming tomorrow. You will know their value when you can't meet them once again in the lifetime." Mother Teresa

Morning Tea

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Have You Told Her……?

“Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.”  O. Wilde

 

 

Last night in my dream a man was talking to me: “Come sleep with me. We won’t make Love. Look after my heart…I’ve left it with you”. He asked me why I moved back in my flat, the place I live now. It is not the first night this special man talks to me. Even more, in the morning I remembered his gentle touch and soft voice. It is such a great feeling. Was I stupid to fall in love with him? Maybe we always have been and will be connected. Life did break me…. I need to love. I need to feel.

Have you ever been in love? Remember your real love? Remember when he said quietly: “I’m in love with you”?.Remember you felt like butterflies running up and down in your stomach? Remember the moments talking to this special person and you couldn’t breathe? You forgot sleeping but you still dreamt about this person?

To be happy in this world, You need three things:

Somebody to love.  A man having no respect, he ceases to love. Why? If he lies to himself and listens to his own lie, comes to a point that he cannot separate the truth within him. It is a curious thought to love many things. There are many kinds of love, many hearts, many men’s and women’s minds connected  differently. And they all have one destiny.

Something to do. We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter.

To hope for something. To fall in love? Any fool can do it. Love cannot survive more than four years. What do I mean?  Love is what is left over, the broken hearts and the hope… everything can be repaired.

Lost love is still Love.

Васил Найденов – Болката Отляво

Странно просветлява смръщеният ден, спомен загорчава, тя стои пред мен.
Искам да докосна пръстите и пак, но не зная просто как.
Но зная – миналото мина, бъдещето не.
Ако се докоснем в кратък миг поне, ще избухне огън, ще ни върне там няма връщане назад.
Тя бе любов, (х2) реже като нож, и няма ден, и няма нощ.
И отново смръщен гледа те светът.
Всеки се завръща в своя собствен път.
Всичко отминава под това небе, болката отляво – не!
Тя бе любов, (х2) реже като нож, и няма ден, и няма нощ.
Тя бе любов, (х2) реже като нож, и няма ден, и нощ

A Mystical Place in Bulgaria Cures Cancer and Different Diseases, Village Kribul, Gotse Delchev District

 

Гъстата и тъмна дъбова гора не стряска бабата и младата жена, която я следва по петите. Двете смело продължават да следват мрачната пътека. Изведнъж пред тях изникват чудновати дървета, които приличат на човешки скелети, отрупани с някакви вехти парцали. Старицата вдига ръка, което е знак разговорите да спрат. В пълна тишина те се промъкват между дъбовете, чиито клони са отрупани със стари дрехи, с червени прежди и конци. Приближават до сакралната зона – уникалното скално образувание Провирачката ( Дупката). Скалната арка лекува болести, а мистиката и тайнството тук съществуват от хиляди години. Старата жена взема пръчка и започва да бае. Придружителката й покорно я следва. Водачката вади червена прежда, която е с дължината на ръста на младата жена. Възрастната връзва конеца на стълбата и се качва нагоре. Показва с жестове на другата да я последва. Промъкват се през 50-сантиметровия отвор сред скалите.

Магическите думи на шаманката, Юлия Земеделска, не спират

Тя прави кръг от конец около първата стъпка на своята спътничка. Вади кибрит и го запалва. Връвта е ритуално копие на слънцето. Следват нови вълшебни думи. Младата, която е бездетна, а много иска да зачене, оставя монети на каменната площадка – скромна лепта за змията – стопанин на мястото. Следва ново промушване през триъгълен отвор между две огромни скали. Двете жени най-сетне са извън свещената зона. Искащата да забременее сваля ритуалната си горна дреха, с която се е докоснала до камъка, и я връзва на едно от дърветата наоколо. Както змията напролет “съблича” старата си кожа и се освобождава от паразити и заболявания и се възражда. Така и човек зарязва болката си там и продължава напред, без да се обръща назад, оздравял и прероден.

Не, това не е приказка. Нито е филм мистерия. А разказ за случващото се всеки ден само на 3,5 км от сатовчанското село Крибул. Езическият обред не е прекъсван от времето на траките. Има го откак свят светува, твърдят местните хора, които на своя диалект наричат дупката Провирачката, намираща се в местността Скрибина. Според легендата светилището принадлежи на огромна черна змия, която го зарежда с енергия. Влечугото е единственото животно в този край. За да подейства вълшебната сила, при извършването на култовата практика

Cкалата трябва да “стисне” болния когато се промушва през нея. Целта е той да се съедини с камъка. Уникалната скална композиция цери болести, кълнат се жителите на селището. Който е прегърнал последната искрица надежда, след като не е намерил помощ отникъде. Но е задължително да вярва искрено в чудото. Тогава ще намери лек за своята болка. “През дупката се влиза от запад на изток, т.е. към изгрева на слънцето. Това е някаква древна лечебница. Обреда го знаят само няколко възрастни жени от селото. Примерите за излекувани хора са много – има цяр за всичко – за зрение, слух, нервни и психични заболявания, стерилитет при жени и мъже.

Баба Юлия, шаманката от Крибул, се разболяла от най-опасната болест – рак. Направила три процедури в древното оброчище и туморът изчезнал. “От този момент си дадох дума да помагам безвъзмездно на нуждаещите се. Не е важно на кой бог се кланяме, а да носим вярата в себе си. Тогава стават и чудеса. Насам редовно прииждат жители на съседните и по-близки селища. Но в последните години идват отвсякъде – увеличават се и чужденците. Тя, болката, не избира кой какъв е, идва бързо, а си отива трудно. Опитвам се да помогна за лечението на всички, които идват”, реди баба Юлия. “Отчаяните да намерят сили в себе си, за да потърсят и намерят надежда и цяр”, твърди възрастната жена.

Преминаването през дупката има за цел човекът, който е болен, да се допре с горната си дреха до скалите. Преданието гласи, че само по този начин може да оставиш там, в змийското светилище, болестта си. Червен конец се носи против уроки. Сваляш връхната дреха, слагаш я върху някое дърво и ставаш нов човек. “Може да се отървеш така не само от болестта си, но и от злото, и от направена ти черна магия, от всякакви лоши работи. Затова и от другия край на света да дойдат в това сакрално място, няма да сбъркат. Че здравето и животът на всеки един от нас, човеците, са безценни. Затова змийското светилище ни прави известни по цял свят”, казват жителите на село Крибул.

 

Черната господарка съска край скалите

Огромната черна змия, която пази тракийското мегалитно светилище, периодично се показва, уверяват някои жители на село Крибул. 1-2 възрастни жени и днес не се отричат от думите си, че са виждали грамадното влечуго. То е голямо и черно, но не е агресивно към хората. Напротив. Усети ли човешко присъствие, веднага се шмугва между скалите и изчезва. Затова светилището се посещава все повече от нуждаещи се и от туристи.
Община Сатовча преди няколко години изпрати предложение скалното образувание да бъде включено в националната инициатива “100-те природни феномена на България”. Предвижда се кандидатстване по европейски проекти за облагородяването на района, но не и за превръщането на Провирачката (Дупката) в туристическа атракция. Защото не бива да се губи лечебната й сила.

Не се предвижда нищо да се строи поне на 200 м от свещеното място. Няма да има нито пейки, нито беседки, нито барбекюта. Там болният трябва да остане насаме със себе си, да намери покой и вяра, за да се излекува. А не да се стигне дотам, че да се използва святото място за пикник.

Odd Thoughts

A Bird With Nesting Material

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Kristian Kostov – Beautiful Mess (Bulgaria) Eurovision 2017

Johnny Cash – You Are My Sunshine

There Is Madness in Loving You

The Paradoxical Commandments

The Paradoxical Commandments

People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered.
Love them anyway.

If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Do good anyway.

If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.

The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.

Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.

The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds.
Think big anyway.

People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs.
Fight for a few underdogs anyway.

What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway.

People really need help but may attack you if you do help them.
Help people anyway.

Give the world the best you have and you’ll get kicked in the teeth.
Give the world the best you have anyway.
― Kent M. Keith

What Is Love?

I never set limits when I love someone. When I touched you, it made me trembling. You did not notice how gentle my soul is; it does not mean I blame you for that.

 

Even do not mention you love me, when someone else is catering for your needs.

Maybe you will ask me about if love and pain survive together? My answer is definitely “No”. And now you ask me “Why”? Because I cannot truly love anyone, feeling the pain so deep in my heart. Imagine the pain I feel like chains around my body. I cannot feel free to love anyone, can I?

According the way I accept and understand love, the only thing that can glue my mind to his, it is not loving his perfections; it is the attraction between me and someone’s  sarcastic and erosive nature.

Loving someone is a full time commitment. And we have to use this time wisely. The most important thing to know about real love is that love is an action from you and to you. Every single day, whether in a relationship or not, you must affirm that love is what you do, not what you say, and you must insist upon it with everyone in your life.

Before I commit to loving someone, I make effort to understand his heart, make effort to understand his soul, to see even his darkest corners. Healthy relationships are about forthright and honest communication.

To love someone, really love someone who really loves you, too, is about being a good, sane, supportive and caring partner; knowing how to understand and compromise; knowing to accept my partner for who he is. Without trying to change me or even him.

If you are in a relationship and trying to salvage or save it, you—both of you—must figure out and heal that which has been hurting you and your relationship.

If one partner changes, the other is forced to change or leave.

Learn to begin sentences with “I feel” or “I think” or “In my opinion”.  Do not defend yourself against that which you are not doing.

Stop thinking you have no control over what happens to you. Take charge of yourself and what happens to you day in and day out.

In the end I can try to answer the question “What Is Love?”: Real love and really loving relationships are consistent. They are not always easy, but they tend to run smoothly because everyone works at it. Love is what helps you deal with the curves that life throws at you—not what makes things more difficult. Love, real love, is support in a difficult world, not something that makes your life even harder.

I do not want to be with a person, who turns everything into an argument or a challenge. It is exhausting. It does not have to be this way. I refuse to live this way.

Healthy Weight Loss and Dieting Tips

5 Ingredient Mixture to Drink Morning and Night for Accelerated Weight Loss

The drink I prepared tonight is very healthy. It is  a great long-term strategy to reduce belly fat. You will need:

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Here is the key: drink a glass of lemon water in the morning instead of downing a coffee cuppa. You can have your cup of tea or coffee after an hour of drinking lemon juice.

It is quick to prepare. Honey and lemon also create a more alkaline atmosphere in the stomach helping you lose weight faster.

Cinnamon is absolutely a delicious and versatile spice that can be used in several ways. From adding cinnamon to baked goods, apple sauce or even use it for hair and weight loss tips, cinnamon also helps promote lean body mass and decreases the levels of body fat.

Honey and weight loss is truly underestimated. Honey is a healthy and natural golden substance that acts as a healthy alternative to sugar. You can substitute honey with normal sugar to sweeten foods and beverages including tea and coffee. This may also help reduce calories in your diet. However, honey can be used in several ways to cut that fat that bulges around you.

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I take one tablespoon 30 mins before and after eating. Twice a day for three weeks. After that I rest for one week.

I love fresh juice. 

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There’s Nothing Like a Woman Who Is Confident When She’s on Top.

“What happened to her?”
“We finished.”
“Why?”
“She wanted more.”
“And you didn’t?”
He shakes his head.
“I’ve never wanted more, until I met you.” Fifty Shades of Grey

 

Have you watched the second trailer “Fifty Shades Darker”? To be honest, the first one I watched two yeas ago and still keep very good memories. I remember in the end I cried….

“Goodbye, Christian”, I murmur.

“Ana, goodbye”, he says softly, and he looks utterly, utterly broken, a man in agonizing pain, reflecting how I feel inside. I tear my gaze away from him before I can change my mind and try to comfort him.

The elevator doors close and it whisks me down to the bowels of the basement and to my own personal hell.”

Why does the first trailer have such an unnerving effect on me? Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstasy.

I was dazzled by him, and he by me. We could guide each other. I did not question how he lived his life before we met. Why? The “Why” has been wrong. The “Why” has been from his place of darkness.

Which comes first, the happiness or the sex?

Anyone who is happy with how much sex they are having, whether that is twice a week or twice a lifetime, this is not about you. One person wants it more, one wants it less, and they either break up in search of better sexual match or compromise on the amount of doing it.

 I do not believe that recommendation is based on any legitimate scientific data. While it might be “normal” for the “average” married couple to have sex twice a week, I do not believe we have a true definition of “normal” sexual frequency. It said, twice a week may be a common sexual frequency for a large number of married couples but I certainly wouldn’t consider that a “normal” scientific value. “We aim to please”.

More data has revealed the average British person will have sex 5,778 times before they die – which seems like quite a lot on paper.

One in five people reported having sex a few times in seven days. What about two people, a man and a woman, who have differing sex drives? What about, if the woman needs sex twice a day? 

And around three percent of British people admitted to having sex every day. I do not have a hard and fast rule about how often to do it.

75 percent of men ejaculated within two minutes of penetration at least half of the time.

I have heard, that the man would take 5.4 minutes. Average. “Can’t or won’t?” “Won’t.” “So you know why.” “Yes.” “But you won’t tell me.” “If I do, you will run screaming from this room, and you’ll never want to return.”

Is squirting myth or magic? Squirting isn’t easy, it has to be said. French scientists say myth, squirting girls say magic. And I say: those who can, do, and they do so because squirting is……….huge relief after brilliant sex.

There’s nothing like a woman who is confident when she’s on top.

According me the best thing a woman has ever done in bed?

  1. Wake him up in the middle of the night to have sex.

  2. 69.

  3. Finishing because of receiving deep-throating.

  4. Dress up.

  5. Tied up the man.

  6. Squirting.

  7. Tonight’s all about me.

Tonight Salad

Salad with baked onions, eggs and walnuts    

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Do You Think …..?

The third-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the majority. The second-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority. The first-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking.   A. Milne

People don’t like to think, if one thinks, one must reach conclusions. Conclusions are not always pleasant.  H. Keller

We can not solve our problems with the same level of thinking that created them.
A. Einstein

Why should things be easy to understand?

You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect—you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break—her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.
Bob Marley

When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time, they can seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall. Think of it–always.  Mahatma Gandhi

To be continued….

Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman?

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